Entry Luahan Rasa Hati: Handphone dia lekat di tangan- aku SMS tak pernah jawab!

Peace upon all!

Hello everyone! How is everyone doing?

I'd like to share a few things today. Seperti yang tertulis di ruangan tajuk di atas, sejujurnya, ada berberapa orang rakan saya bersifat demikian.

Tapi, let me start this entry dengan sesuatu yang terjadi this morning. (Rojak gila bahasa ku ini.)

Okey, this happy-happy morning started out to be raining. It was cool and comfy. I went to work and around 11, I received a call from the office. My friends from the office had asked me to check which partner is working today in my other outlet. Long story made short, rupa-rupanya ada seorang Group Leader yang sangat pandai telefon I punya director, nak maklumkan bahawa anak buah saya masuk kerja lambat. I got a good telling off. It spoils my mood today as I have to enter Bad Manager Mode and have to be stern and bagi sedikit teguran kepada rakan-rakan sekerja saya ini.

I tried to do it as softly as possible. I don't want to be that manager or leader that shouts at people. Upon questioning pertaining to the reason of his lateness, I was given a standard drama script answer; "My car broke down."

I honestly can't bring myself to believe this. I was not born yesterday, you see. But, let's imagine for a day that this was true.

1) Haruslah seseorang pekerja itu memaklumkan kepada Penyelianya dan juga Penyelia bagi cawangan tempat dia bekerja jika dia akan lambat tiba ke tempat kerja.

2) Haruslah dia mengemukakan bukti yang dapat mengesahkan sebab-sebab kelewatannya.

Tapi, kenapa Group Leader (Penyelia cawangan tempat bekerja) itu sangat bijak terus call i punye director??? Ape kate I call dia punya director dan ngadu pasal dia. leh? Mesti dia terus kena buang keje, kan? Seb baik I ni baik lagi. I just call dia punya manager. Suruh manager dia ajar dia pasal hierarchy dalam company management.

Sedikit terkesan akibat suatu perkara yang sangat bodoh ini.

Okelah~ saya nak bercerita mengenai suatu fenomena yang saya nampak berlaku di sekeliling saya. Tajuknya seperti tertera di atas. Handphone macam kena gam di tangan, namun bila diSMS, tak pernah pulak menjawab.

Saudara sekelian.

Saya melihat ada berberapa kawan-kawan saya yang mempunyai tabiat begini. Tangannya senantiasa sibuk memicit punat-punat di telefon bimbit mereka. Namun, di suatu bahagian lain, saya terdengar sedikit aduan dari rakan-rakan mereka yang mengadu kepada saya yang si folan ibni si fulan ini sangat liat menbalas sms yang dihantar~ Jadi, saya membuat sedikit kajian, dapat saya rangkumkan di sini, sedikit hasil kajian yang telah saya peroleh.

Tajuk Laporan: Antara Sebab-sebab kenapa Handphone dia lekat di tangan- SMS aku tak pernah jawab!

1) Kredit tak ada, tapi nak berlakon macam kredit dia banyak- hal ini terjadi selalu kepada orang-orang yang tak mampu nak topup kredit fon mereka, tapi malu nak cerita kat kawan-kawan. Sebagai contoh, kalau tengah makan bersama-sama, masing-masing sibuk dengan henfon masing-masing, kalau orang yang tak ada kredit ni, nak sembang ngan sapa, kan? so, dia buat-buat sibuk macam tengah menjawab sms bertimbun-timbun jugak. Boleh juga dia mengelakkan diri dari terkena perli : "elllehh, henpon ja mahal, 4g lah, wifi lah, tapi kredid takdak, hampehhh!!!"

2) Suka main Snake II kat dalam henfon- hal ini terjadi kepada orang yang ketagih kronik kepada game dalam henfon. Dah tak ada kerja sangat dah, dan memang sangat banyak masa terluang, maka dia pun main je permainan yang ada dalam henfonnya. Hatta, ada yang terlalu kronik, sampai masa memandu kereta pun boleh lagi main game Snake tu.. memang hebat!!

3) Buta henset dan buta IT- oleh kerana henset zaman sekarang sangat canggih manggih, dengan OS yang macam-macam jenis, Froyo lah, Frodo lah, Pancake lah, maka, bg orang yang banyak duit untuk beli henfon, tapi tak berapa pandai guna, maka akan mengambil masa yang agak lama untuk menjawab satu sms. Sebab tu lah ditangannya itu selalu sahaja memegang hensetnya, sebab walaupun tak banyak mesej masuk, nak jawab satu mesej pun dah makan 3 jam. Jadi, saya ucapkan selamat maju jaya, semoga anda cekap menggunakan henset anda dengan cakna kelak.

4) Henset Baru, so nak tayang selalu- baru tukar, mesti lah nak nunjuk!! kena la rajin bawak keluar, tunjuk kat orang. tapi, nak sep kredit, takmau jawab sms orang, sbb baru beli henset, duit dah habis, so, takde topup lg la~

5) Dia hanya pegang henset depan kita ja, belakang kita, henset tu dia letak dalam lubang jamban. sebab tu tak penah jawab SMS kita.

6) Henset dia rosak. Leh call je, takleh sms. nnt fon padam sendiri, atau pun jammed. Tp, dia taknak orang tau, so, dia buat-buat la macam henset tu ok je memanjang~

sebenarnya ada banyak lagi sebab dan alasan. tak larat saya nak menaip. haihh.. tapi, pokok pangkalnya, orang tu tak balas sms kita, mungkin ada sebab2 yang munahsabah. jadi, bersangka baik jelah ye kawan-kawan sekelian. marah-marah pun tak guna.

Semoga Anda Semua DiRahmati Tuhan

Firdaus

Traducing- is it Mengumpat?

Found this on facebook this afternoon. It was written on the wall of a famous Ustaz. It was originally written in Malay, but for the purpose of this article, I translated them into English.

Things that require a person traducing others:

1. When other people complain of the injustice against us before the judges and the like and then when that person may be exposed disgrace.

Well, quite straight forward actually. If a wife beats up her husband, we can't just go and tell everyone about it. We can of course tell the police as the people who has the authority, so that action can be taken, in order to save the poor husband's life. The system is perfect, isn't it?

2. When in a meeting, for someone to fix mistakes then we can mention the guilt that came before to help us improve the mistake. We can of course approach this with utmost politeness. So that the person who did the mistake can accept this professionally.

Let's just say that in a post-Mortem meeting for a company event, when in the event, someone had made a mistake that interrupted the event a little bit. The person who did the mistake must be reminded to not repeat the mistake again, while everyone else are also warned to avoid doing the same thing. This however, will involve the reminder to remind the involved party as politely as possible, so that the other party can accept this with open hearts. Shouting (for example) at that person may bring disgrace to the person.

3. When we ask for a fatwa from the mufti then we can mention those errors that are associated with our questions.

Well of course! We can of course leave out the details of the the offender. ^.^

5. When to call a person who has known disgrace, as we call someone who is famous by the name. Example: Crippled Mat, frog, and more.

No comments about this one. please.

6. Citing an offense that is not ashamed to disclose that such evil people who like to drink alcohol in front of the public.

These types of people deserve to be traduced! hahaha~ sape soh wat camtu?? kan?? But, the operative word is "citing"; which according do Merriam Webster, means

transitive verb
1
: to call upon officially or authoritatively to appear (as before a court)
2
: to quote by way of example, authority, or proof
3
a : to refer to; especially : to mention formally in commendation or praise
b : to name in a citation
4
: to bring forward or call to another's attention especially as an example, proof, or precedent

Not as slurs, okie??

Waalahua'lam. I am no expert on these matters, if there are errors in this piece of writing, please do inform me, OK?

There you go boys and girls. I wrote this in hopes that I'd be able to watch what I say more carefully and deliberately. I hope that I could avoid it altogether too!

For more details please see the book Ihya Ulumuddin, Juzuk 3 / 103- I think.

Hoping You Are Well

Firdaus.

Saling Memahami~

Peace onto All~

Hi all~ what a week! The first few weeks of May was hot!! fuhh!! hehehe.. Second half of May however, rain poured from the heavens above, bringing cool air that is very soothing.

I really like the rain, it makes everything romantic. I can just imagine myself, walking through a drizzle, in a town that has a lot of colonial buildings, street lamps showering passers by with orange light.. Enuff with this romantic stuff!!

I was taught last week about this wonderful sentence: There are those who demand themselves to be understood, when they themselves fail to understand others.

Well, it makes sense. Understanding paves a way for peace. If we don't understand something, (or someone), we can't ever truly make peace with them.

That's how I truly understand it.

I try to understand other people, and if their actions trigger annoyance, I just learn to forgive, and forget, unless it is something that goes on everyday, there are two choices;

1) avoid it.

2) try to change it.

The latter would prove to be more difficult than the former. I usually just avoid things (or people) that annoy me. haha..

I do realize that my behavior annoys a lot of people. I don't understand with full comprehension as to the reason why they are annoyed with me, and my behavior, but I do try to understand it, and try to avoid doing things that annoy these particular people when I am around them. That is my part of understanding. If they fail to reciprocate, and produce the same level of understanding, I'll just make peace with it anyways.

The point here is: People who understand others and try to understand others are the very best of people. From understanding others, you will be at peace (and at a more evil level), you can even manipulate them to your advantage.

p/s: for those who can't understand this article and finds it annoying: I forgive you, because I understand that my level of intellectuality is higher. Hahahaha.